000			01507cam a22002414a 4500
005			20260319103826.0
008			040702s2005 nyu 000 0 eng
020			_a9780071441551 _q(acid-free paper)
040			_aDLC _cDLC _dDLC
042			_apcc
050	0	0	_aHQ 801 _b.M35 2005
100	1		_aMcKay, Matthew.
245	1	4	_aThe commitment dialogues : _bhow to talk your way through the tough times and build a stronger relationship / _cby Matthew McKay and Barbara Quick.
250			_a1st ed.
260			_aNew York : _bMcGraw-Hill, _cc2005.
300			_axiii, 239 p. ; _c24 cm.
505	0		_aThe core fears buried inside relationships -- The fear of engulfment, will I still exist if I merge with you? -- The fear of abandonment, is there a magic glue to make you stay? -- The shame factor, you won't love me anymore if you see the real me -- The emptiness trap, if I keep moving, I won't have to look inside -- The masking issues -- Introduction to part II -- Time spending it together, spending it apart -- Money, yours, mine and ours -- Children, am I ready for this? -- Sex, what happened to it? -- Exclusivity, who do we let in, who do we keep out? -- Trust and goodwill, is long-term commitment possible if these are lost to us? -- Making a decision : letting go versus going for it.
650		0	_aCommitment (Psychology)
700	1		_aQuick, Barbara.
856	4	1	_3Table of contents _uhttp://www.loc.gov/catdir/toc/ecip0420/2004015656.html
942			_bIBS _cBK
999			_c37557 _d37557